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What do members of the opposite sex find most off-putting on a first date? I would never judge a date on what she orders so I expect the same in return.’ 3. ‘One date spent half of our meal explaining how she was “unlucky in love” and that she didn’t know where she was going wrong.Being on your phone/ having your phone on the table… I hate having to repeat myself continuously because my date is distracted by a Facebook notification or an incoming Whats App message. I didn’t have the heart to tell her but is where she was going wrong.Bringing up an ex is a bad move too – sometimes it’s inevitable but keep the details to a minimum – I don’t want or need to hear about your Greek cruise together in 2010.’ 5. ‘I was dating a girl who had a very cutting sense of humour, but to the point where it just made everything a bit awkward.After everything I said she would raise her eyebrows and shoot me a sarcastic put down.
This is one of the few times someone might lead you on purposefully.
I know it was all in good fun and that she was a really nice girl but it made me dread seeing her.’ 6. ‘Someone once took five bathroom breaks on a dinner date with me.
I thought she had a bladder problem or just didn’t like me – it turns out she was doing her make up.
Most humans aren't mean-spirited by nature, but they do so many awful things in dating such as stringing along or leading on. You have to defy physics - keeping someone suspended in space for extended periods of time.
Your behavior and statements don't allow for an understanding of what's going on between the two of you.
Also “subtly” going to the toilet right before the bill comes along is not a cool move, and a very obvious one.’ 7. ‘One date kept correcting my grammar and told me several times that I was holding my cutlery wrong. ‘I can’t explain why I don’t like people taking food off my plate, and if it’s my girlfriend I will make an exception, but on a first date just ask or wait for me to offer, don’t go grabbing my food without saying anything.’ 10. ‘A date once sent her food back for the stupidest reason and it was mortifying.