Early stages in dating
Well as they say, YOLO (you only live once) so why waste valuable time on a person like this? You can’t trust them, you can’t believe them and to be honest, you shouldn’t be dating them.
If you’ve made plans with your date on several occasions and he or she continuously cancels or re-arranges with little or no notice then ‘Houston, we have a problem’.
Dating is the perfect balance between not owing the other person anything as you’re purely just getting to know each other, but wanting to make a good impression at the same time.
Therefore, in reality, if the person is not transparent, then he/she is being secretive.
With each relationship comes new lessons, new experiences, but also new baggages.
I don’t mean that said person needs to reveal everything about themselves, because at this stage they really shouldn’t, but they should be able to tell you if they are going away for the weekend for example.They are insincere and their behaviour and reactions to certain situations just confuse you.They can be so confusing that they seem to just appear in and out of your life like a yoyo.Lack of Character Someone who lacks character is a person who says they are going to do something then don’t do it.They are those who are constantly changing their minds and they are what I like to call actors.
If you’re dating someone who is a compulsive liar and/or is secretive you need to run and run fast.